On Purpose with Jay Shetty

4 Steps to Develop a Growth Mindset & 4 Ways to Stop Listening to the Opinions of Others

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  When negative thoughts turn into action, that turns into habits, and then become an addiction that ruins our life, surrounding yourself with people that can talk you out of these negative thoughts will change your life. Having people around with positive influence on you is the best way to combat addiction. In this episode of On Purpose, we get to listen again to Jay’s conversation with Russell Brand on Follow The Reader with Jay Shetty. They talk about why we become addicted to things and how to pivot from it. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/  Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 02:48 We suffer from the notion that something’s missing in our life 05:08 We all function on a certain programming 07:16 When we live in a projected image of ourselves 09:21 Acknowledging that we all are flawed 11:41 Take a personal inventory of the unpleasant things in your life 14:54 Economic culture that’s based upon productivity 16:30 It’s important to have a counsel of people 18:58 Engaging your rational mind takes you out of your emotion 20:36 Here’s a postcard from the other side 21:42 Be careful not to judge your parents 23:00 Russell on Quick Fire questions Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Zachary Levi ON: Accepting Yourself with Radical Love & How to Know When You're Running From Your Fears

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty talks to Zachary Levi about radical love. We all grew up with some form of trauma. Some have come to terms with it and managed to move on, find new beginnings, and live better lives. Some are still struggling because their past is entangled with their present and is now limiting them mentally, socially, and emotionally. Talking to someone about these unpleasant feelings is the first step to healing. But taking the first step, for some, remains to be a difficult move. Zachary Levi is one of the most versatile actors in Hollywood with critically acclaimed roles in TV, Film, and on Broadway. HIs career catapulted as the lead and fan favorite, Chuck Bartowski, in the hit NBC series, Chuck.  Zachary demonstrated his range as a Tony Award Nominee for Best Actor in a Musical in She Loves Me. His impressive vocals landed him a leading role in the Disney Academy Award nominated (Best Original Song) animated musical, Tangled. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:24 What does radical love look like? 14:31 How trauma affects our mindset and perspective 23:08 Running away from what you’re trying to survive from 30:00 Heal yourself by talking about the problem Episode Resources Zachary Levi | Instagram Zachary Levi | Twitter Radical Love: Learning to Accept Yourself and Others See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

9 Personality Types & How to Understand Your Type to Know Your Strengths & Improve Your Relationships

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  Our personality is a major component of who we are as a person and is often how people see us. Depending on the personality type that is dominant within us, our reactions to different situations vary from others. And these varying reactions may be viewed negatively by other people because their personality is the exact opposite of ours. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares the key qualities of the different personality types and what can be done to improve our personality development. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/  Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 01:18 Why is it important to know your personality type?  06:45 Type #1: The Perfectionist 13:10 Type #2: The Giver 19:34 Type #3: The Performer 22:24 Type #4: The Romantic 24:42 Type #5: The Observer 26:58 Type #6: The Loyal Skeptic  Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu ON: Train Your Confidence like a Muscle & Use These Simple Daily Habits to Succeed in Any Situation

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty sits down with Lisa Bilyeu to talk about fighting for your own dreams. When you want to achieve success, you need to work hard for it. You need to have the right mindset to get through the roadblocks that may come your way. You need to be present in the moment and make meaningful connections. And you need to fight for what you want. You need to fight for yourself.   Lisa Bilyeu is the co-founder of the billion dollar company Quest Nutrition, the President of Impact Theory, and the host of the Women of Impact podcast where she features women who have overcome incredible hardship to achieve massive success. Her mission is to empower all women to recognize that they really can become the hero of their own life.  Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 04:46 Developing confidence is like a muscle 06:31 Radical confidence is taking little steps that lead to your goal 11:18 The problem with excuses is when they are real 18:06 Only you can fight for your dreams 23:38 Fear can stop so many of us 30:54 Don’t allow being critical to yourself to stop you 31:47 The danger of looking for external validation 35:01 The biggest mistake of goal setting 37:09 When should you stop apologizing? 42:48 Our perception of things changes everything 46:20 Closing the gap between being sensitive and taking action Episode Resources Lisa Bilyeu | Instagram Lisa Bilyeu | Facebook Quest Nutrition Impact Theory Radical Confidence Women of Impact | YouTube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

6 Mistakes We Make in Relationships & 4 Ways to Make Them Right

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  Being too critical about the things your partner does, unknowingly, makes you the toxic person in the relationship. When you get the same treatment from your partner, you often feel unappreciated and unloved without realizing that you’ve been doing the same thing to them. As this cycle continues, the foundation crumbles and the relationship inevitably fails. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty explains the mistakes we often make in our relationship and how we should be mindful of our actions to strengthen it. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/  Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 01:47 The common relationship mistakes we make 03:53 Mistake #1: Being too critical to our partner 07:42 Instead of criticizing, get creative in removing complaints 09:42 Mistake #2: When jokes go too far 14:57 Mistake #3: We become deflective, we become defensive 17:35 Mistake #4: Disconnecting or becoming aloof 19:41 Mistake #5: You focus on the value displayed in the moment 22:13 Mistake #6: Our partners aren’t our coaches  Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Matt Damon & Gary White ON: Seeing Problems and Taking Action & How to Help Others in Crisis

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty sits down with Water.Org co-founders Matt Damon and Gary White to talk about the water crisis around the world. We see stories of extreme poverty in places that are less developed and have little to no access to basic services such as electricity and water. These stories of struggles are out there but we don’t get to hear the rawness of the situation and reality many people live in. The water crisis is real and it’s one of the major hindrances for children to have proper education and a chance at a better future.  While everyone knows Matt Damon as an actor and producer and screenwriter, in 2006, he founded H20 Africa Foundation to raise awareness about water initiatives on the continent. Matt's active participation in the work of Water.Org and Walter Equity has positioned him as one of the world's experts on water and sanitation issues. Now in 1991, Gary White launched Water Partners, now the international NGO known as Water.Org. Today, he leads two organizations in creating and executing market-driven solutions to the global water crisis driving innovations in the way water and sanitation projects are delivered and financed. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:14 The water crisis is a daily struggle 09:35 Taking the problem one step at a time and find a solution  16:49 How the lack of water impacts women and girls more 21:53 What else should a thirteen year old girl think about? 24:41 The impact of seeing places in extreme poverty 27:50 Tapping into existing microfinance institutions (MFIs) across the globe 35:10 Finding a partner in the water credit space 40:44 Spread awareness on these individual stories Episode Resources Water.Org Water Equity The Worth of Water See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

5 Ways To Reduce Helplessness in Difficult Times & How To Improve Your Relationship With The News

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  How many times have you heard bad news first thing in the morning and then end up feeling bad for the rest of the day? Or how about reading a bad comment online and feeling restless about it? The news that we consume everyday can highly affect our mental health which can result in us feeling stressed and helpless.  In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares facts of how to reduce the feeling of helplessness and how we can improve our relationship with the news. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/  Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 00:28 The feeling of helplessness 02:17 The Seligman Experiment 07:24 Step #1: Choose when & where you consume news 10:28 Step #2: Expose yourself to good news 12:24 Focus on the things you’re doing well 16:53 Step #3: Find your role in the community 18:52 Step #4: Practice self-care 21:58 Step #5: Pray for courage Like this show? Please leave us a review here  - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Gabrielle Bernstein ON: Childhood Trauma & Why You Must Be the One to Heal Yourself From the Inside Out

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon. Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty sits down with Gabrielle Bernstein to talk about how past trauma affects our daily life. Within us is our protector self, that part of us that takes over when we face fear, danger, sadness, longing, and feel hurt. And our protective self can sometimes stop us from taking chances, from taking risks. It can possibly hinder our growth and healing. Let’s tap into this inner version of us and make peace with our wounded self. Gabrielle Bernstein is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Universe Has Your Back, Super Attractor, and has written six additional bestsellers including her latest book, Super Attractor. Gabrielle was featured on Oprah’s SuperSoul Sunday as a “next-generation thought leader,” and The Oprah Winfrey Network chose Gabby to be part of the “SuperSoul 100,” a dynamic group of 100 trailblazers whose vision and life’s work are bringing a higher level of consciousness to the world. The New York Times identified her as “a new role model.”  Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:02 What is happiness? 05:27 The concept of being present 11:54 We’re all running from trauma of some form 15:43 Our greatest protector part is to dissociate 19:25 “For my husband, Zach…” 22:18 How do you help someone help you? 29:36 Opening up something and not getting stuck in one place 32:40 Our physical conditions are psychosomatic 36:08 Carrying around shame 39:10 How do you fall in love with yourself again? 46:27 Dealing with your protector and exile parts 48:48 It’s not about getting out of it overnight 52:45 Thinking of trauma as a mother 55:38 Getting through postpartum depression Episode Resources Gabby Bernstein | Website Gabby Bernstein | YouTube Gabby Bernstein | Instagram Gabby Bernstein | Twitter Gabby Bernstein | Facebook Gabby Bernstein | LinkedIn Gabby Bernstein | Books Dear Gabby Podcast Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

2 Unhealthy Eating Habits Many People Have & How To Improve Your Body Image and Confidence

To see my Top 3 Reasons why you should try online therapy visit betterhelp.com/jaystop3. You deserve to invest in yourself, and BetterHelp is a great way to do that. Go to betterhelp.com/jaystop3 and to get 10% off your first month of online therapy when you sign up.  For this special series, in partnership with Betterhelp, Jay Shetty sits down with Haesue Jo, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp and Jayme Cyk. Jayme, who has been unhappy with her previous sessions, shares how finding the right therapist has helped her gradually accept and love her own body.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:18 What brings you to therapy today? 04:09 Different eating habits that started at a young age 07:57 Noticing that the eating habits are beyond being healthy and mindful 12:34 Taking antidepressants since nine 16:20 Conversations matter in every session 20:23 Relationship between body image and self worth 30:54 Now in the 6-month commitment to therapy 33:24 Therapists should prioritize building rapport 37:53 Finding the right therapist See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee ON: The Science of Mental Well-Being & How to Live a Happier Life Without Burning Yourself Out

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty sits down with Dr. Rangan Chatterjee to talk about  the core of happiness. There is a huge difference between success and happiness, oftentimes we confuse the two as one and the same. One can be successful in their job, career, business, and family life, but can be unhappy. We need to learn the core of happiness to genuinely enjoy life by appreciating our past self, our current life, and the future we all look forward to having.  Dr. Rangan Chatterjee is regarded as one of the most influential medical doctors in the UK and wants to change how medicine will be practiced for years to come. He hosts the biggest health podcast in the UK and Europe, ‘Feel Better, Live More’. He can simplify complex health advice so people can feel better and live more. Dr Chatterjee is known for finding the root cause of people's health problems and he highlighted his methods in the ground-breaking BBC television show, Doctor in the House. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:11 Happiness is the byproduct when we do the right things 08:12 We confuse success and happiness 14:54 Accepting everything that has happened to you 27:14 The process of alignment 40:23 The 2-part exercise to stay aligned 47:00 Alignment is not a destination you get to 49:58 Dr. Rangan on Final Five Episode Resources Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Instagram Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | YouTube Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Twitter Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Facebook Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | LinkedIn Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Books Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Website Feel Better, Live More Podcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

3 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship & 2 Toxic Traits to Watch Out For

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  What truly defines a healthy relationship? And what makes one unhealthy? Is there an easy way to spot if the relationship we’re in is good for us or gradually hurting us? It often involves the level of our emotional health, our mental maturity to process difficult situations, and how far are we willing to stay in the partnership.    In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares facts of how unhealthy traits eventually ruins relationships and the positive habits that can turn things around. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 01:30 The power of having a support system 02:08 Why the quality of our relationships are good for us 11:12 Sign #1: Sense of mutual respect 15:01 Sign #2: Honesty 18:56 Sign #3: Individuality 24:53 Unhealthy Trait #1: Sense of control 25:04 Unhealthy Trait #2: Emotional regulation Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Gary Vee ON: Living Without Judgment & How to Stop Beating Yourself Up When You Make Mistakes

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon. Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty sits down once again with Gary Vee to talk about choosing to fight for your passion over what other people have to say. When you allow people and their opinions affect how you live, you give them control over your life. You are giving them the power to decide for you. You can change that but choosing how much of your life you want to share and to what extent is already considered an intrusion into your private life. Gary Vaynerchuk is a serial entrepreneur, and serves as the Chairman of VaynerX and the CEO of VaynerMedia. Gary is considered one of the leading global minds on what’s next in culture, relevance and the internet. Known as “GaryVee” he is described as one of the most forward thinkers in business - he acutely recognizes trends and patterns early to help others understand how these shifts impact markets and consumer behavior. Today, he helps Fortune 1000 brands leverage consumer attention through his full service advertising agency, VaynerMedia. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:39 “I do a good job of making my Dad popular.” 06:41 If it works for you, you can juggle multiple things 12:33 “I’m very happy because I’m very simple.” 18:11 We have demonized losing when losing is the best 22:26 You’re in control of your life 26:50 Leveraging family and personal life lacks authenticity 29:54 Lack of accountability is leading to so much unhappiness 34:29 What is your most worthy pursuit? Episode Resources Gary Vee | Instagram Gary Vee | YouTube Gary Vee | Twitter Gary Vee | LinkedIn Gary Vee | Books Gary Vee | Facebook VaynerMedia The GaryVee Audio Experience See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

8 Steps for Overcoming Imposter Syndrome & How to Be a Continuous Learner

Jay Shetty graduated from business school—and decided to become a monk. Not only was this an unusual move, but it was met with strong disapproval from his family and friends. But Jay followed this calling. Today, he's a #1 New York Times bestselling author, hosts a leading health podcast, and is lauded as a mindfulness leader by millions worldwide. Shortly after obtaining a degree in business, Jay Shetty decided to become a monk. Not only was this an unusual move, but it was met with strong disapproval from both family and friends. Still, Jay felt compelled to follow this calling, and today Jay is a #1 New York Times bestselling author, hosts a leading health podcast, and is lauded as a mindfulness leader by millions of people around the world. In this episode, Jay tells Alex about feeling completely lost at multiple times in his career, and how holding true to his values helped navigate his way through immense imposter syndrome and nearly running out of money.  Listen to more episodes of Imposters and subscribe here: https://link.chtbl.com/WfYlurno Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 03:43 What was childhood like for a young Jay Shetty? 08:11 Clash between self awareness and low self esteem 10:08 We are living two lives 16:24 Loving the process and accepting the result 24:38 Don’t get discouraged if you are behind 27:15 Asked to speak in front of colleagues 29:47 Navigating through Imposter syndrome 34:48 Be open to risks, welcome mentorships 42:39 Everything in the world is made up of energy 46:07 Preserve the purity of your heart Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Neha Kumar ON: Building Resilience to Negativity & How to Make Your Passions Practical

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty sits down with Neha Kumar to talk about women in business and motherhood. In a place where men dominate and are seen as rulers in a certain field, women will have to exert extra effort, time, and dedication to be in a position that is considerably equal to men. And when a woman has the passion for it, the will to persevere, and the favorable circumstances that allow  her to flourish, she gets to be her best self for herself, her family, her career, and her goals. Neha Kumar is the former COO & CFO of Create & Cultivate, an integrated platform designed to help millennial women achieve their full career potential, including new female entrepreneurs who require additional resources. Neha has a dynamic and entrepreneurial mindset. She is also an angel investor who is passionate about investing in game-changing businesses. As a current faculty member at the UCLA Anderson school, she teaches the next generation of undergraduates about entrepreneurial finance and management. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:27 Congratulations on your 5th wedding anniversary! 04:40 The unconscious bias on women 08:14 Being a woman in business school 14:27 Education will give us a framework on how to think 21:23 How to teach students to think deeply 25:47 You want to be able to think strategically 31:07 The difference between a business and a passion project 36:53 Focus is a big deal 40:39 Work-life balance versus priorities 46:44 In the workplace, not everyone can empathize with you 50:40 Dealing with ‘mom guilt’ 57:30 What do you look at when you invest? 59:06 Neha on Final Five Episode Resources Neha Kumar | LinkedIn Neha Kumar | Twitter Neha Kumar | Instagram New Money Ventures See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

7 Scientifically Proven Ways to Know You're in Love

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  Have you been truly in love? Have you loved someone so much they are always included in your plans? Have you been in a situation where you can’t wait to spend more time with the person you love? Being in love is rich, flavorful, and addictive. It changes you and how you see the world.   In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty narrates the different signs that tell you are falling in love with someone and how to deal with your own feelings. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/  Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 02:02 Are you falling in love? 04:38 Sign #1: You start breathing in time with them 10:18 Sign #2: You generally have a more optimistic view on life 13:58 Sign #3: You have a similar sense of humor 17:46 Sign #4: You feel you can be honest with someone 22:04 Sign #5: You think about your partner when making plans 24:05 Sign #6: You are no longer looking for the flirty validation from someone 26:03 Sign #7: The feeling of aligned values Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Simu Liu ON: Letting Go of Your Parents' Expectations & How to Find the Courage to Fail Until You Succeed

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty sits down with Simu Liu to talk about his parent’s immigrant story and how he was able to pursue his passion despite everyone’s expectations from him. One thing that has killed a lot of dreams is fear. The fear of people not supporting us throughout the journey, the fear of being not good enough, the fear of not being able to become the person that you want to be is something that hinders a lot of people from achieving their goals in life. But what do you think would happen if you actually stop being afraid and start trying? Simu Liu made history as the star of the first Asian-fronted movie in the Marvel Cinematic Universe in Destin Daniel Cretton’s Shang-Chi and the Legend of the Ten Rings, which garnered him The People’s Choice Award for Favorite Action Movie Star. Simu also starred in the Award winning CBC/Netflix comedy series Kim’s Convenience, which won the ACTRA Awards for Outstanding Ensemble in 2017 and Best Comedy Series at the 2018 Canadian Screen Awards. It was the first Canadian television series with an all-Asian lead cast, the series chronicles the day-to-day micro-dramas encountered by a Korean immigrant family that runs a corner grocery store. He wrote his very first book, We Are Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story, which tackles his struggles with parental expectations and stereotypes. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 06:30 Simu’s famous 2018 tweet & how he started to pursue his acting dream 11:11 Simu’s relationship with his parents 17:48 Understanding our parents sacrifices 20:55 How different parenting was in Simu’s home 25:40 Why Simu’s parents hate the way he writes the book 29:05 How he repaired & amended his relationship with his parents 37:58 Bringing in your parents into the journey that they can understand 39:35 Simu’s business background 44:12 Giving your own self the validation that you need 47:09 Identifying the things that you can control 53:35 Simu’s Final Five Episode Resources Simu Liu | Instagram Simu Liu | Twitter Simu Liu | TikTok We Were Dreamers See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

3 Signs You Could Be Dealing With Depression & How to Stop Self-Sabotage

To see my Top 3 Reasons why you should try online therapy visit betterhelp.com/jaystop3 You deserve to invest in yourself, and BetterHelp is a great way to do that. Go to betterhelp.com/jaystop3 and to get 10% off your first month of online therapy when you sign up.  For this special series, in partnership with Betterhelp, Jay Shetty sits down with Haesue Jo, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp and Ashley Carr. Ashley talks about her journey throughout therapy and how it has helped her become a better person that she is now.  What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 04:12 How Ashley got into therapy and stigma around it 07:37 Therapy is not just for the weak-minded 08:58 Waking up everyday and feeling that you’re not enough 10:39 Skills she learned in therapy 14:07 Self-sabotage in return for love 15:44 How we’re acting in the present stems from our childhood experiences 17:14 Learning and understanding that we don’t need to accept the bad things that happens in our lives 19:33 What her life would be like if she didn’t go to therapy 21:05 Self-awareness is the first step 24:09 Accepting yourself 25:36 When did therapy become a choice 27:04 Every question during therapy has intention 29:33 Sometimes advice from our family or friends might not be the one we need 36:06 Advice to others on why they should try therapy 40:08 Depression symptoms 41:36 How parents can handle their kid’s emotions 46:49 Therapy is life-changing See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Taylor Tomlinson ON: The Quarter-Life Crisis & How to Let Go of Toxic Relationships

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty talks to Taylor Tomlinson about why sometimes it’s okay to shift your focus on something else. Dropping out of college doesn’t really mean you’re wasting your time away. In some cases, people have found success and multiple achievements after they decided to pursue something else. These pivotal moments come and go in the most unexpected ways so we all need to learn how to spot them and seize the opportunity right away. Taylor Tomlinson began performing comedy when she was 16, after her father signed her up for a stand-up class. She became a top 10 finalist on the 9th season of NBC's Last Comic Standing in 2015 and was named one of the top 10 comics to watch by Variety at the 2019 Just For Laughs festival. Her first Netflix standup special, Quarter-Life Crisis, premiered in March, 2020. In 2021, she started her own podcast called Sad in the City and in the same year she was placed on the Forbes' 30 Under 30 list. Now her second standup special, Look at You, is now streaming on Netflix. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 05:03 Why did he sign you up for a standup class? 10:34 Performing on stage is still terrifying 18:20 Dropping out of college 25:41 It’s really about being confident 31:33 Everything happened for a reason 40:51 On relationships and working through the issues 45:02 That guy who actually cheated 50:28 Spend as much time as you need to know yourself 01:00:07 The time that people spend alone as adults  01:04:53 Getting this moment of peace after performing on stage 01:11:22 Being open about your mental health  01:17:02 Taylor on Final Five Episode Resources Taylor Tomlinson | Instagram Taylor Tomlinson | Facebook Taylor Tomlinson | TikTok Taylor Tomlinson | Website Taylor Tomlinson | Netflix Sad in the City See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

7 Types of Negative & Toxic People and 5 Steps to Deal With Them

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  We all want peace in our life. We all want healthy relationships. We all want positivity to surround us. Therefore we tend to stay away from toxic and negative people. But sometimes, this need to keep toxic and negative people out of our circle is also making us THE toxic and negative person to others. And we may not realize it because we are doing it unconsciously and unintentionally. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty covers the different types of unhealthy behaviors that make relationships draining and how we can carry ourselves with positive energy and optimistic views. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 00:57 “I’m surrounded by negative and toxic people.” 04:50 Type #1: The Complainer 10:53 Type #2: The Canceler 14:32 Type #3: The Casualty 19:23 Type #4: The Critic 24:35 Type #5: The Commander 28:25 Type #6: The Competitor 30:26 Type #7: The Controller Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Vanessa Hudgens ON: Manifesting Love & Finding Confidence From Within

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty sits down with Vanessa Hudgens to talk about manifestation & importance of nurturing your inner child. As we grow up, we always think that we should start being serious in life just because we are adults. But we should always remember that inner child in us, so have fun and believe in magic - protect the child in you.  Vanessa Hudgens is an American actress, singer, entrepreneur, and producer. After making her feature film debut in Thirteen, she rose to fame portraying Gabriella Montez in the High School Musical film series, which brought her significant mainstream success.  Since the release of her studio albums and the High School Musical franchise, Vanessa has focused on her acting career. She has appeared in films like Bandslam, Beastly, Sucker Punch, Journey 2: The Mysterious Island, Spring Breakers, The Princess Switch, Second Act, and Bad Boys for Life. She also launched her beverage business, Caliwater, a line of cactus water, and her own skincare brand, Know Beauty. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 05:12 How she discovered ZenZone 08:18 Spirituality & mindfulness has always been a part of her life 13:15 Importance of having & nurturing your inner child 15:23 How she navigated a very tough industry 17:35 Experience that gave her a sense of groundedness 19:56 Witchcraft and rituals 22:35 How rituals & manifestations work for her 25:29 Identifying if you are with the right person 28:35 Importance of asking the uncomfortable questions 31:24 Good things come when you least expect them 35:18 Having the confidence on doing things alone 40:17 How she remains present 43:08 Her passion for collaborating with people 46:24 Her creative & intuitive works 50:12 How she balances & prioritizes different things in life 56:21 Vanessa’s Final Five Episode Resources Vanessa Hudgens | Instagram Vanessa Hudgens | Twitter Vanessa Hudgens | Facebook See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

3 Myths About Work Life Balance & 5 Ways to Really Create It

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  The daily rush of our careers often gives us so little time to pause, take a break, or have a rest. We are so used to our fast-paced work life that we find it hard to balance work and life, to find balance between building a career and living a good life. Despite this need to rush through the day and get things done, we can and we should find the right balance to live a satisfying life. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares why work stress is catching up with us and how we can be in a state where we can slow down when needed and destress when necessary. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/  Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 01:40 People are stressed 06:43 Five states we need on any given day 10:05 Write down your general bedtime and wake up time 20:45 Meditation helps us develop focus 23:15 How do we get energy? 24:41 How do we get presence with the people we love? 25:56 Ideas give you the ability to plan Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dax Shepard ON: Prioritizing Your Mental Health After Addiction & How to Make Peace with Your Past

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon. Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty sits down with Dax Shepard to talk about valuing yourself and sticking to what you believe in above all. At certain points in our life we will come across conflicting interests and opposing ideas, and these could shake the foundation of what we believe to be right. And that’s okay. Living with two opposing ideas can be challenging but these will give us new and better life perspectives.  Dax Shepard is an actor, comedian, writer, and director, and of course podcast host of one of my favorite podcasts, Armchair Expert. He's known for his appearance in films like Without a Paddle, Zathura: A Space Adventure, Employee of the Month, and many, many more. He also portrayed Crosby Braverman in the NBC comedy drama series, Parenthood from 2010 to 2015. He also played Luke Matthews in the Netflix show, The Ranch, co-starred in ABC's Bless this Mess, and acted in the MTV reality series Punk’d. And since 2018, Dax has hosted the award-winning podcast show, Armchair Expert, where he interviews celebrities, journalists, and academics about the messiness of being human.  Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:30 A good memory but terrible with remembering dates 09:00 The memories that support your own identity 14:14 The ‘you’ embracing yourself 23:04 Running from or embracing your ethnicity 26:18 Getting drawn to successful people 29:20 The practice of having vulnerable conversations 33:08 Getting out of the skepticism 38:49 Recognize what the people around you want 49:38 Entertaining two ideas at once that are seemingly contradictory 56:36 Encouraging critical thinking at home 01:06:11 Teaching your children how to be resilient 01:10:20 Balance between self validation and humility 01:15:43 Dax on Final Five Episode Resources Dax Shepard | Instagram Armchair Expert Podcast | YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

6 Reasons We Fall Out of Love & 6 Changes We Can Make to Keep It Flourishing

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  Falling in love with someone can happen instantly. Staying in love with the same person is hard work. In most relationships, partnerships last not because of love and all the giddy feelings that come with it. Relationships last when both partners continuously work together to build trust, deal with issues as one but still recognize deferring opinions, and plan a future together with each other’s interest and growth in mind. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us the common reasons why many couples fall out of love and ways to save the relationship by keeping the love burning. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/  Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 02:12 The top reasons we fall out of love 05:59 Reason #1: We stop learning new things about each other 10:41 Reason #2: We stop talking about vulnerable, meaningful topics 17:06 Reason #3: We don’t create systems to deal with arguments 22:58 Reason #4: When you aren’t emotionally available 23:49 Reason #5: No division of chores and responsibilities 24:37 Reason #6: Not addressing important issues with your partner Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Andrew Huberman ON: Learning Effectively & How to Train Your Brain For Optimal Performance

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon. Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty sits down with Andrew Huberman to talk about the beauty and power of the human mind. We are all wired to feel emotions based on our experience, on our perception of what is happening around us, and on what we anticipate to happen in the future. And the most fascinating thing is that our mind perceives time differently and is dependent on how we feel.  Dr. Andrew Huberman is a tenured Professor of Neurobiology and Ophthalmology at Stanford School of Medicine. His laboratory studies neural regeneration and neuroplasticity, and brain states such as stress, focus, fear, and optimal performance. His podcast, The Huberman Lab, discusses neuroscience and science-based tools, including how our brain and its connections with the organs of our body control our perceptions, our behaviors, and our health, as well as existing and emerging tools for measuring and changing how our nervous system works. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:05 The beauty and utility of Biology 07:13 How has our relationship with learning been formed over time? 12:24 The best way people can approach learning 21:14 What happens while we sleep 31:05 Are there healthy symbols for the brain? 42:57 Self-training in healthy amounts of dopamine 44:41 The dopamine reward prediction error 49:35 Dopamine can distort our perception of time 52:56 How do we become comfortable in the discomfort of change? 01:03:45 There’s one trial learning of negative experiences 01:14:00 In some relationships, there is a need to bring in dopamine 01:20:59 Tattoos and symbols 01:27:14 Andrew on Final Five Episode Resources Andrew Huberman | Instagram Andrew Huberman | Facebook Andrew Huberman | Twitter Andrew Huberman | YouTube Andrew Huberman | LinkedIn Huberman Lab Podcast Dr. Andrew Huberman is hosting two live events: Seattle WA, May 17 and Portland, OR May 18. They're almost sold out so be sure to visit https://hubermanlab.com/tour to get your tickets. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

8 Ways to Improve Your Circle & Accelerate Your Impact in the World

The people worth keeping in our life are those that see our potential and encourage us to work on them to achieve success at work, in our career, in relationships, and in life. Let the values they stand by influence us positively and allow the valuable life experience and knowledge they share to give us a better life perspective. This week, we listen to Steven Bartlett of The Diary Of A CEO interview Jay Shetty about his childhood, professional career, monkhood, and the life of purpose he is leading as he chats with successful people in pursuit of success, wellbeing, mental health, and love. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/  Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 04:04 Formative things from the early years 08:05 3 Steps to self-awareness 12:23 I talk aloud  to myself a lot 16:23 Loneliness and solitude are completely different 21:14 The importance of surrounding yourself with people of good value 30:58 Are you a remarkable quitter? 36:25 It’s always about the middle path 43:18 3 effective formats to meditate 49:20 How to incorporate meditation in your life 54:05 Fear can be healthy or unhealthy based on how we use it 01:00:47 We aren’t perfect 01:13:38 What does it take to impact someone’s life? 01:16:48 Simple fundamentals to live a happy life  01:24:03 The partnership with Calm 01:29:40 The people who see your potential 01:42:53 The definition of true success Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Miranda Kerr ON: Self-Care Made Simple & How to Stay Curious as a Lifelong Learner

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty talks to Miranda Kerr about the challenges of being a mother, businesswoman, media personality, and an advocate of organic beauty products. Many people are now more aware of the benefits of all organic products and what these products can do for our health and wellbeing. Growing up in a household that also appreciates and practices this, it’s a never ending journey to continuously create and develop products that are purely and genuinely natural.    Miranda Kerr is a well-known face in the world of fashion. She started a modeling career in her early teens when a friend entered her into a modeling competition, which sparked significant media attention and she soon became the most sought after new face in modeling. In 2007, Victoria's Secret signed Miranda as an angel, making her the first and only Australian model ever to hold the coveted title. Maranda continued to work closely with fashion titans across the world. Now, she is the founder and CEO of the leading global certified organic skincare brand, Kora Organics. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:45 Putting your all into the small things 04:57 There’s so much to learn out there 11:11 What is a heavy metal detox? 13:10 Cultivating passion at a young age 19:23 Making space for your own health and wellness 24:17 At first, products were made for personal use 32:10 Giving people the results that they need 36:13 It needs to be certified organic 42:51 Latest Kora moisturizer 47:03 Miranda on Final Five Episode Resources Miranda Kerr | Instagram Miranda Kerr | Facebook Miranda Kerr | Twitter Miranda Kerr | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

8 Strategies to Remove Distractions to Improve Focus and Productivity

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  Distractions are everywhere. When you’re eating, taking a walk with your dog, having coffee with a friend, or even when you’re rushing towards work, there is always something that can take our attention away. And when we lose focus on our task, we become unproductive which means we get less things done. This can be very frustrating. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about different ways we can divert our attention and lessen the impact of possible distractions that may come our way. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/  Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 01:26 The biggest thing that takes away joy in our life is distractions 03:26 The different types of distractions 05:17 Principle #1: Recognize that you have the power to ask better questions 06:40 Principle #2: How well can you structure your work? 08:18 Principle #3: What can you do with a 5-minute break? 09:26 Principle #4: Stop creating a teach-me-how-to-treat-you routine 16:27 Principle #5: Plan your own distractions 17:22 Principle #6: The probability of achieving a goal if you have an idea 22:14 Principle #7: Take a social media fast for a week 24:10 Principle #8: Stop when you’re being hard on yourself Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Tony Robbins ON: Breaking Negative Thinking & Unlock the Unlimited Potential of Your Mind

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon. Jay Shetty sits down with Tony Robbins to talk about what it truly means to take care of yourself and your body. Often, when we’re young and full of energy, we become fearless, we become risk-takers, we become someone who can do anything and can be anything. But going down this path, without paying attention to our health and what our body needs to stay in shape, our body ages rapidly, we get sick, we become weak. Tony Robbins is an entrepreneur, #1 NY Times bestselling author, philanthropist, and the nation’s #1 life & business strategist. He has empowered more than 50 million people from 100 countries around the world through his audio programs, educational videos, and live seminars. For more than four and a half decades, millions of people have enjoyed the warmth, humor, and transformational power of Tony’s business and personal development events. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:30 Being 31 years old and was diagnosed with a brain tumor 11:03 Why do we wait to experience pain before we decide to change? 16:42 The different genes that work magic in our body 26:27 Tools and exercises to help build more energy 33:32 What is the greatest human mindset and skill? 40:58 Three decisions we make in our life 48:55 Your focus is controlled by your values and belief systems 55:36 The mindset that should keep nurturing 01:02:01 What do you look for in a friend? 01:04:00 Latest breakthroughs in medical science 01:18:41 Tony on Final Five Episode Resources Tony Robbins | Twitter Tony Robbins | Facebook Tony Robbins | Instagram Tony Robbins | LinkedIn Tony Robbins | YouTube Tony Robbins | Website Tony Robbins | Books Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

5 Reasons We Break Up & 6 Ways You Know If You're Ready to Date Again

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  Coming from a bad, toxic, or traumatic relationship would often make us edgy. We build up walls to block the wrong people from ever coming into our lives and putting us through difficult moments and heartbreaking experiences. We lose confidence in others because of our past relationships and in doing so, we may never be ready to open up again for a new relationship.  In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us the signs that will tell us when we are ready to love again and when it's okay to entrust our feelings to someone new. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/  Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 01:37 How to know if you're ready to date again 04:13 Reasons why couples break up 08:40 Principle #1: Have you learned the lesson from the last relationship? 14:19 Principle #2: When you’re now able to talk about it 15:39 Principle #3: You're ready to take every step for what it truly is 17:27 Principle #4: Make sure what to avoid and what to be aware of 20:05 Principle #5: This time, you have to set boundaries 24:01 Principle #6: Try it out Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Charles Duhigg ON: How to Hack Your Brain to Change Any Habit Effortlessly & the Secret to Making Better Decisions

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon. Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Jay Shetty sits down with Charles Duhigg to talk about forming habits, how to think more deeply, and our overall well-being. Habits are deeply ingrained in us, we do them unconsciously and automatically. This is why many people find it difficult to drop negative habits and form positive ones. It is difficult and would often require strong willpower and clear motivation. Yes, it’s difficult but never impossible. Charles Duhigg, journalist, a New York times bestselling author. He wrote the Power of Habit and Smarter, Faster, Better, which talk about productivity habits, and the science behind it. He joined the New York Times as a staff writer in 2006 and was part of the team that won the 2013 Pulitzer prize in explanatory journalism for the iEconomy, a series that examines the global economy through the lens of Apple.  Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:37 Interest in human behavior 05:14 Judgment, guilt, and criticism 10:08 The golden rule of habit change 16:51 Developing habits often need external reward 20:13 We retain negative memory stronger than the positive ones 25:17 What are implementation intentions? 28:03 How to make it easier to take the first step? 35:25 Slow down and make deliberate choices 43:38 When does being productive become a bad thing? 48:40 Why a sense of well-being is more meaningful 56:28 What matters is what we do on average everyday 01:00:28 How to make To-Do lists work 01:07:25 Allow yourself to think more deeply 01:10:06 Charles on Final Five Episode Resources Charles Duhigg | LinkedIn Charles Duhigg | Twitter Charles Duhigg | Facebook Charles Duhigg | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices