Ashley and James Schwalm

About this episode

Just before dawn on January 26th, 2023, a passing volunteer firefighter spotted a car engulfed in flames at the bottom of an embankment outside Collingwood, Ontario. Inside, firefighters found a body burned beyond recognition in the passenger seat — but no driver anywhere to be found. The car belonged to Ashley Schwalm, a devoted mother of two, and her husband, fire captain James Schwalm, said she'd left home that snowy morning for an early hike while he walked the dog. On the surface, it looked like a tragic accident on an icy road, but missing skid marks, a body on the wrong side of the car, and a husband's story that didn't quite hold up soon pointed investigators somewhere much darker. What followed was a meticulous investigation into a secretly unraveling marriage, an elaborate cover-up staged by a man trained to fight fires, not set them, and the digital trail that finally exposed the truth.<br /><br />Support us: <a href="https://patreon.com/lovemarrykill" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://patreon.com/lovemarrykill</a><br /><br />Today’s snack: <a href="https://pimentocheese.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pimento cheese sandwich</a> and <a href="https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/9090/chess-pie/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">chess pie</a><br /><br />Sources:<br /><ul><li>Dateline, S34 E8, “Running Man.”</li><li>ABC 20/20, S48 E16, “Footprints in the Snow.”</li><li>Bogdan, Sawyer, and Catherine McDonald.<a href="https://globalnews.ca/news/10577717/james-schwalm-collingwood-murder-update/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> “Ex-Ontario Firefighter Pleads Guilty to Wife’s Murder After Body Found in Flaming Car.”</a> Global News, 20 June 2024.</li><li>D'Andrea, Aaron, and Catherine McDonald.<a href="https://globalnews.ca" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> “‘Cold, Callous’: Ex-Ontario Fire Captain Who Murdered Wife Handed Life Sentence.”</a> Global News, 10 Feb. 2025.</li><li>McDonald, Catherine.<a href="https://globalnews.ca" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> “Ex-Ontario Fire Captain Who Murdered Wife ‘a Monster,’ Judge Told at Sentencing Hearing.”</a> Global News, 25 Nov. 2024.</li><li>New Jersey Domestic Violence Fatality and Near Fatality Review Board.<a href="https://www.nj.gov" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> “NJ Domestic Violence Fatality / Near Fatality Review Board 2021 Annual Report.”</a> State of New Jersey, 2021.</li><li>Ontario Superior Court of Justice.<a href="https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2025/2025onsc864/2025onsc864.html" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> R. v. Schwalm, 2025 ONSC 864</a>. CanLII / minicounsel, heard by Justice Michelle Fuerst, 10 Feb. 2025.</li><li>Phillips, Kim.<a href="https://www.ctvnews.ca" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> “Dateline NBC Spotlights Murder of Collingwood’s Ashley Schwalm in Two-Hour Special.”</a> CTV News Barrie, 14 Nov. 2025.</li><li>Singh, Arvind.<a href="https://www.sportskeeda.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> “Ashley Schwalm Case on Dateline - A Complete Timeline of Events.”</a> Sportskeeda, 15 Nov. 2025.</li></ul>