David Kessler on Finding Meaning in Grief and Practicing the Art of Memento Mori

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<p>In <em>Meditations,</em> Marcus Aurelius wrote “You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think.” Death is inevitable for all of us and practicing the art of Memento Mori reminds us to live each day to the fullest and with virtue.&nbsp;</p><br><p>David Kessler, a grief and loss expert, joins Ryan today to talk about why a meaningful life comes from embracing rather than fearing death, how grief can shape our understanding and appreciation of life, the balance between grief and joy, and how losing his son changed everything he thought he knew about grief.&nbsp;</p><br><p>David’s personal experience with grief started very young, as a child witnessing a mass shooting while his mother was dying in a hospital. For most of his life, David has taught physicians, nurses, counselors, police, and first responders about the end of life, trauma, and grief. Even after years of studying grief and counseling those experiencing it, his life was turned upside down by the sudden death of his twenty-one-year-old son.</p><br><p>David co-authored two books with Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, including <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Grief-Grieving-Finding-Meaning-Through/dp/1476775559" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>On Grief and Grieving</em></a><em>, </em>and after experiencing the death of his son, he updated her 5 stages of grief with a 6th stage: <em>meaning</em>.&nbsp;</p><br><p>📚 Grab signed copies of<em> </em><a href="https://www.thepaintedporch.com/search?type=product&amp;q=david+kessler*" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Finding Meaning</em></a><em> </em>and the <a href="https://www.thepaintedporch.com/search?type=product&amp;q=david+kessler*" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Finding Meaning Workbook</em></a><em> </em>by David Kessler at The Painted Porch <a href="https://www.thepaintedporch.com/search?type=product&amp;q=david+kessler*" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.thepaintedporch.com/&nbsp;</a></p><p>Go to <a href="https://www.davidkesslertraining.com/finding-meaning-workbook" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">griefbook.com</a> and follow David Kessler on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamdavidkessler/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://x.com/IamDavidKessler?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">X </a>| <a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamdavidkessler/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@IAmDavidKessler&nbsp;</a></p><br><p>📕 Our favorite translation of Seneca’s essays on grief and loss, <a href="https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/hardship-and-happiness-the-complete-works-of-lucius-annaeus-seneca?_pos=2&amp;_sid=bea088ede&amp;_ss=r" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Hardship and Happiness (The Complete Works of Lucius Annaeus Seneca)</em></a> is available at The Painted Porch | <a href="https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/hardship-and-happiness-the-complete-works-of-lucius-annaeus-seneca?_pos=2&amp;_sid=bea088ede&amp;_ss=r" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.thepaintedporch.com/</a></p><br><p>🪙 Designed with the intention of carrying them in your pocket, our <a href="https://store.dailystoic.com/collections/coins/products/memento-mori" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Memento Mori Medallion</a> is a literal and inescapable reminder that “you could leave life right now.”</p><p>Check it out at <a href="https://store.dailystoic.com/collections/coins/products/memento-mori" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://store.dailystoic.com/</a></p><p><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>