Mother’s Day Special: Gifts, Grief And Being Seen

About this episode

<p>Mother’s Day has always meant something special to Blended.&nbsp;Please Note: This episode was recorded on Thursday 26th February, before the recent conflict in the Middle East.&nbsp;</p><p>As mums and as a podcast that talks about family life, our hearts are with everyone affected by the devastating events that have unfolded since this recording.&nbsp;</p><br><p><br></p><p>This episode is the first ever remote recording of Blended, Kate recorded from Dubai on while Nathalie and Cilla joined from London.</p><br><p>After putting a question box out to the Blended Instagram, the messages flooded in. One major theme was the pressure around buying gifts for the ex. Several stepmums shared that their partner expects them to organise Mother’s Day cards and presents for the bio mum, sometimes even extravagant ones. The panel discusses boundaries, emotional labour and whether managing that relationship is really the stepmum’s responsibility.</p><br><p>They also tackle the complex dynamic of stepping into a family where the children’s mum has passed away. What happens when you are doing the daily parenting but feel you cannot be publicly celebrated in case it upsets extended family? Kate shares her own experience and how she has navigated that delicate balance.</p><br><p>Alongside the dilemmas, the ladies open up about how they will be spending Mother’s Day themselves and why this date continues to matter so much to the show.</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>