No One is Self-Made | What Expensive Things Cost

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<p>Marcus Aurelius opens <a href="https://store.dailystoic.com/pages/meditations" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Meditations</em></a> reflecting upon what he has learned from various influential individuals in his life. It’s titled “Debts and Lessons,” and the 17 entries spanning nine pages and more than 2,000 words make up nearly 10% of the entire book! Marcus writes with the humility of someone in the final act of their life taking stock of how lucky they are to be where they are.</p><p>It’s beautiful. And it totally dispenses with the notion of the "self-made man," the idea that someone got somewhere all on their own. Marcus knew he was a product of so many mentors, influencers, advisors and teachers. <em>Debt</em> is the operative word in that title—he owed them so much.</p><p>When we talked to Arnold Schwarzenegger on a <a href="https://dailystoic.com/arnold-schwarzenegger-on-finding-ways-to-be-useful/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">recent episode of the Daily Stoic podcast</a>, he talked about this very idea (in fact, he references how inspired he was by <em>Meditations</em> in the final chapter of his fantastic new book <a href="https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/be-useful-seven-tools-for-life" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Be Useful</em></a>). Because on the surface Arnold Schwarzenegger’s remarkable life story is a <a href="https://dailystoic.com/turn-the-colors-on/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">classic example of that idea of the “self-made man.”</a> Born and raised in a small village in Austria, <a href="https://dailystoic.com/you-need-to-have-a-vision/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">seemingly on his own sheer will and determination</a>, Arnold achieved extraordinary success in the worlds of bodybuilding, acting, business and politics, ultimately becoming a global icon.</p><br><p><em>P.S. “I have always learned more from my failures and therefore I was never afraid of failure,” Arnold Schwarzenegger </em><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYbrhz7xjjc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>said while on the Daily Stoic podcast.</em></a><em> The ultimate example in the power of hard work and perseverance, Arnold shared his wisdom in being useful while you still can, how to transform your liabilities into assets, and tips to best nurture both your mind and body. This episode is full of nuggets you can directly apply to your life so </em><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYbrhz7xjjc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>be sure to check it out</em></a><em>. And for more of Arnold’s uniquely earnest, blunt, and potent insight, pick up his new book </em><a href="https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/be-useful-seven-tools-for-life" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Be Useful: Seven Tools For Life</em></a><em>, available over at </em><a href="https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/be-useful-seven-tools-for-life" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>the Painted Porch</em></a><em>!</em></p><p>-----</p><p>And in today's excerpt from The Daily Stoic Journal, Ryan examines the Stoic idea that expensive things cost more to us than their dollar value by reflecting on a recent situation in his life.</p><p>✉️&nbsp;Sign up for the Daily Stoic email:&nbsp;<a href="http://dailystoic.com/dailyemail" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://dailystoic.com/dailyemail</a></p><p>🏛 Check out the&nbsp;<a href="https://store.dailystoic.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Daily Stoic Store</a>&nbsp;for Stoic inspired products, signed books, and more.</p><p>📱 Follow us:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/dailystoic/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://twitter.com/dailystoic" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/dailystoic" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">YouTube</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@daily_stoic" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.facebook.com/dailystoic" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>