Tom Davis on Sobriety, Fatherhood & the Anxiety That Took Him Off Stage

About this episode

In this episode of Begin Again, actor, comedian, and writer Tom Davis opens up about the battles behind the laughter—and how sobriety and fatherhood helped him find himself again. Best known for Murder in Successville, King Gary, and his raw, relatable humour, Tom shares the quieter struggles that shaped his journey: crippling anxiety, imposter syndrome, and the fear that nearly stopped him from ever stepping on a stand-up stage again. In this intimate and revealing conversation, Tom explains how giving up alcohol brought him clarity, how becoming a father changed everything, and what it took to return to comedy after years of self-doubt. Alongside his partner Kathryn, he also speaks candidly about grief, IVF, and the strength it takes to support a loved one through illness. This is a powerful story of growth, vulnerability, and learning to show up for the people you love—especially yourself. Whether you're battling self-belief or just need a reminder that it’s never too late to begin again, Tom’s journey is funny, moving, and packed with perspective. 💬 Drop a comment: What’s your biggest takeaway from Tom’s journey? 👉 Follow us on Instagram: @beginagain 🎥 Watch more on TikTok: @beginagainpod (00:00) Intro (00:24) Overcoming Dyslexia: Tom’s School Struggles (00:59) Imposter Syndrome & Believing in Yourself (03:50) How Early Jobs Shape Identity (08:56) Finding Comedy (14:27) Anxiety and the Pressure to Succeed (19:16) Losing Yourself on the Path to Success (25:24) Ancient & Brave Ad (29:35) Airbnb Ad (31:02) Supporting a Partner Through Illness (32:47) Kathryn’s Fertility Journey (35:17) Coping with Grief: Tom Opens Up (41:02) Choosing a Surrogate & Quitting Alcohol (44:02) Gaining Perspective & Returning to Stand-Up (51:03) Fatherhood and Life with Daughter Grace (55:11) Lifestyle Changes and Getting Fit (57:28) Failing Forward: Being Kinder to Yourself (01:03:25) Tom’s Hero & a Message from Kathryn - Sponsored by: Ancient + Brave - https://ancientandbrave.earth/pages/planet Airbnb - https://www.airbnb.co.uk/host Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices