Why straight dating is harder than ever | The Gray Area

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The internet is rife with chatter about “heteropessimism,” the feeling that gender relations are broken and heterosexual relationships are doomed. But is this just cynical discourse, like a coping mechanism for bad dates? Or is this a symptom of a much deeper, systemic breakdown? Subscribe to our channel! http://goo.gl/0bsAjO In this episode of The Gray Area, guest host Jonquilyn Hill is joined by Sarah Jones, senior writer for The Intelligencer. Together, they peel back the performative irony to look at the harsh realities of dating in a post-Dobbs, politically volatile United States. From the economic structures that make leaving bad relationships feel impossible, to the "manosphere" versus the "pink pill," Sarah and Jonquilyn discuss why we are struggling to connect — and why "hopeful pessimism" might be the most responsible way to build a future. 00:00 Intro 01:42 Are the straights okay? 05:33 Defining hetero pessimism 16:33 Moving beyond cynicism with hopeful pessimism 27:32 Romantic relationships are hard work 29:47 Why political currents make dating fraught 41:29 Love and happiness are not finite resources 46:26 How women uphold patriarchal structures 52:18 Examining romantic norms Host: Jonquilyn Hill, host of Explain It To Me Guest: Sarah Jones, senior writer, Intelligencer We would love to hear from you. To tell us what you thought of this episode, email us at thegrayarea@vox.com or leave us a voicemail at 1-800-214-5749. Your comments and questions help us make a better show. And you can watch new episodes of The Gray Area on YouTube. Listen to The Gray Area ad-free by becoming a Vox Member: vox.com/members Vox.com is a news website that helps you cut through the noise and understand what's really driving the events in the headlines. Check out http://www.vox.com. Watch our full video catalog: http://goo.gl/IZONyE Follow Vox on Facebook: http://goo.gl/U2g06o Or Twitter: http://goo.gl/XFrZ5H