“I’m a Better Mother Because I Work” — From The Woman Who Ran British Vogue Whilst Pregnant

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<p>During August, the Motherkind team and I try to practise what we preach by slowing down, taking some time off and making the juggle just a little easier over the summer holidays.</p><p>So, throughout the month, we're bringing you some of our most listened-to episodes of the year so far.</p><p><strong>What if becoming a mother didn't make you less ambitious, less capable or less valuable at work,&nbsp; but actually gave you skills that could make you better at your job?</strong></p><p>This week, we're revisiting one of our <strong>most listened-to Motherkind episodes of the year</strong>, and it's a conversation I think every working mother needs to hear.</p><p>I'm joined by Vanessa Kingori, who became the first woman in British Vogue's history to become Publishing Director and found herself navigating pregnancy and new motherhood while leading one of the most powerful media brands in the world.</p><p>Vanessa shares the extraordinary pressure she felt when she became pregnant in such a senior position, including being told that her pregnancy was exactly why businesses were reluctant to put women into these roles. Rather than hiding it, Vanessa did the opposite: she became deliberately visible and set out to make things easier for the women who would come after her.</p><p>We talk about why <strong>working mothers so often feel they're failing at both work and home</strong>, even when they're actually performing brilliantly. Vanessa explains why motherhood can make women better at time management, decision-making, prioritisation and leadership — and why businesses that underestimate mothers are missing some of their greatest talent.</p><p>We also get practical about the juggle: asking for help, having honest conversations with your partner about the division of labour, building your village and surrounding yourself with people who support the life you're trying to create.</p><p>And Vanessa shares a powerful reminder for any mother questioning her career, ambition or identity: <strong>you don't have to choose one version of yourself.</strong> You can be ambitious and deeply present. A leader and a mother. Career-driven and family-focused. As Vanessa puts it, she's a better mother because she works — and a better business leader because she's a mother.</p><p>This is a conversation about <strong>working motherhood, career confidence, ambition, mum guilt and redefining what success looks like after children</strong>.</p><p>💡 <strong>What You’ll Learn in This Episode</strong></p><ul><li><p>Why motherhood can make you better at your job</p></li><li><p>How to navigate career ambition after having children</p></li><li><p>Why working mothers often feel they're failing when they're not</p></li><li><p>How to ask for help and create a more equal division of labour</p></li><li><p>How to build a career and motherhood around what matters to you</p></li></ul><p><strong>Watch this episode on </strong><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PcT64pbpX1I&amp;t=544s"><strong>YouTube</strong></a><strong> and subscribe.&nbsp;</strong></p><p><strong>Loved this episode?</strong></p><p>Follow or subscribe so you never miss an episode of Motherkind. It helps more mothers find the show and keeps our community growing.</p><p>If you enjoyed this episode, you might also enjoy Zoe’s solo - <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-problem-isnt-you-its-career-advice-that-ignores/id1295306961?i=1000762340559">The Problem Isn’t You, It’s Career Advice that Ignores Motherhood</a></p><p><strong>Feeling different since becoming a mother? Get clarity on who you’re becoming now and download your</strong> <a href="https://course.motherkind.co/the-matrescence-podcast-epiodes-cheat-sheet">FREE Matrescence Cheat Sheet</a></p><p><strong>Connect with Zoe:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Follow Zoe on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/zoeblaskey/">Instagram</a><strong>, </strong><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/zoelevings/">LinkedIn</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@zoeblaskeymotherkind?lang=en">TikTok</a></p></li><li><p>Get Zoe’s Sunday Times bestselling book, <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Motherkind-happiest-fulfilled-empowering-podcast/dp/0008650829/ref=zg_bsnr_g_books_d_sccl_2/260-9943622-5435716?psc=1">'Motherkind: A New Way to Thrive in a World of Endless Expectations’</a></p></li></ul><p><strong>This Motherkind episode is sponsored by:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Headline sponsor Wild Nutrition, the brand raising the bar for women’s supplements. Want to feel the Food-Grown difference yourself? Get 50% off for three months at <a href="http://wildnutrition.com/motherkind">wildnutrition.com/motherkind</a>. Ts and Cs apply.</p></li></ul>