Matthew Hussey: 5 Reasons Why There is No Such Thing As The Right Person At The Wrong Time & How to Stop Missing Your Ex
About this episode
Does timing really matter in whether a relationship works? What are healthy ways to deal with a breakup? Today, let’s welcome back dating coach Matthew Hussey. Matthew is also a YouTube personality and writer known for offering advice on dating, love, and relationships to both men and women through his online content, seminars, and his book "Get The Guy." His approach typically combines practical advice, motivational coaching, and a bit of psychology to help individuals understand what they want from a relationship and how to get it. Matthew shares his insights on the complexities of love, self-discovery, and the importance of honest communication. He emphasizes on the significance of creating a peaceful relationship, distinguishing it from a boring one, and the value of embracing vulnerabilities to foster deeper connections. Matthew's reflections on his own experiences, coupled with his expertise, provide a comprehensive guide on navigating the challenges of modern dating, building meaningful relationships, and cultivating self-awareness.  In this interview, you'll learn: How to cultivate peaceful relationships without boredom How to deepen connections through vulnerability How to navigate modern dating with confidence How to enhance relationships with effective communication How to enrich love life through self-awareness Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode offers valuable lessons on love, resilience, and the transformative power of embracing your true self. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 04:20 Where Does Your Idea of Love Come From? 10:34 What Differentiates a Peaceful to a Boring Relationship? 19:35 What Are Your Must-Haves in a Relationship? 31:47 Tactics Are Different From Relationship Standards 39:59 Egoic Standards Versus Setting Standards for Happiness 51:20 Practice Having Real and Difficult Conversations 01:04:48 The Importance of Communicating Your Thoughts and Feelings 01:08:25 Is Your Partner the Right One for You? 01:15:05 Dealing with the Different Phases of Heartbreak 01:26:31 What’s Next for Matthew?     Episode Resources: Matthew Hussey | Website Matthew Hussey | TikTok Matthew Hussey | Instagram Matthew Hussey | YouTube Matthew Hussey | Twitter Matthew Hussey | Facebook Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What) Love Life with Matthew Hussey https://matthewhussey.com/llbook-launch/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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