Robert Greene: How to Deal with Negative People When They Are in Your Family, Friend Circle or Work

About this episode

How do you deal with negative people close to you? How do you stay positive around negative people? Today, Jay welcomes Robert Greene, known for his bestsellers like "The 48 Laws of Power" and "The Daily Laws." Robert's works draw on historical figures and events to provide insights into the dynamics of power and social influence. His books are often used as guides for personal development, leadership, and understanding the complexities of human interactions.  Robert shares tips on dealing with negative people, emphasizing the importance of emotional distance and understanding that everyone has their flaws and shares his thoughts on the idea that our sense of self is just a mental construct, and real enlightenment comes from letting go of our egos. He also stresses the importance of questioning your beliefs to truly understand who you are and what you’re meant to do in life.  Followed by Jay and Robert's discussion on why it's more important to judge people by their character rather than their intelligence or charm, how a strong character is shown by handling criticism well, working well with others, and managing stress. They also talk about how modern life can make us less empathetic and the need to genuinely connect with others.  In this interview, you'll learn: How to deal with negative people How to develop empathy in modern life How to question your own beliefs How to stay true to yourself How to handle criticism constructively How to manage stress effectively By understanding the nature of the self, maintaining emotional distance from negativity, and focusing on genuine connections, we can foster a stronger sense of empathy and authenticity in our lives. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 05:31 How to Deal with Negative People? 09:04 Look Behind the Mask 13:26 Getting Attracted to the Wrong People 15:02 Filling Up the Emptiness 17:23 Surprising Characteristics in Humans 19:10 Our Capacity for Empathy 21:31 What’s Your Most Repeated Thought? 22:34 How Quiet the Mind 24:54 Becoming More Aware 30:20 How We Process What We’re Experiencing 33:42 Who Really Are You? 37:44 How People Think About You 41:00 People’s Perception of You 43:46 The Before and After 46:57 Timeless Knowledge in Books 49:58 What Makes You Excited? 53:16 The Second Self 55:57 The Core of Your Reality 59:21 Limited Language 01:01:41 The Limited Circle of Harmony 01:04:49 Different Thoughts About the World 01:11:04 Slowing Down 01:13:21 Robert on Final Five   Episode Resources: Robert Greene | Website Robert Greene | Instagram Robert Greene | TikTok Robert Greene | YouTube Robert Greene | Books See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices