[Trailer] The Quran & Human Psychology | Trauma | Nouman Ali Khan

The thing I wish to talk to you about today is a very heavy subject. And that is human emotions in the Quran. >> In Freud psychology, all human beings start traumatized. The difference between us and the Christian creed is you're

broken and you will always be broken. With us, you can break and then you can fix again. And then you can break and you can what? Fix again.

And there's a lot of you know, social media content from professionals, non-professionals, people that want to become, you know, TikTok therapists, whatever, about how traumatic how toxic your mother is. And what a narcissist your brother is.

And what a what if what do you what do you do if you have a toxic family and an abusive family and a narcissistic family? What did they say? They said What did they say?

What are you wearing? Oh my god. You do you, queen. Right? So, you have this because they don't believe in the

idea of family that existed for centuries and centuries and centuries and every other society, but in Western society, family is a prison. And you have to free yourself from that prison. You have to free yourself from the trauma that was

given to you by your mom and your dad. You have to free yourself from that. You have to find you. Find you know, become yourself. Actually, I even met a parent today who said, "I'm

trying to talk to my son. He doesn't pray. He doesn't listen. I'm Allah is angry with me. I have failed And the moment she said that, I

remembered who? Your trauma is in the Quran. >> It was experienced by someone. It was experienced by Nuh. Maybe Allah is not happy with me because I wasn't

able to save my son. Maybe Allah is not happy with me because I wasn't able to save my spouse or my This is the same fear that Rasulullah had salallahu alayhi wasallam and Allah told him, "Fala allakum bakhiun nafsaka ala asarihim." >> Maybe you're

going to kill yourself in depression because you keep thinking that these people aren't listening and the effect of them not listening is killing you. Don't be Don't stop being sad over them. The prophet was told, "We are now these prophets and

we're understanding that what they experienced is not a small amount of trauma. It's It's an extreme form of trauma as a young man, as a child. >> Let's go to Lut alayhi salaam.

He's alone. He's frustrated. He has no Are these feelings when somebody's sitting in a therapy somewhere? >> Do you feel helpless?

Do you feel you don't have any support? Do you feel alone? Do you feel like nobody understands you? Do you feel like you're trying to communicate but the people on the other side keep getting angry and they

don't understand what you're trying to say, no matter how clearly you say it, you can't get across to them? Are these common experiences in people's lives? In Western psychology, you are the center of the universe. You are the most important character.

In the Quran, Allah is the most important entity. >> So, your healing is not coming from inside. It's coming from outside. It's coming from Allah.