About this episode
<p>When we look at the people we love, how clearly do we really see them? This week, we talk with psychologist <a href="https://psyc.umd.edu/facultyprofile/lemay/edward" rel="noopener noreferrer">Edward Lemay</a> about how our fears, desires, and insecurities can shape our perceptions of our partners — sometimes creating the very reality we expect. He explains how we can learn to see our partners in ways that create greater trust and connection. Then, <a href="https://profiles.ucr.edu/app/home/profile/sonja" rel="noopener noreferrer">Sonja Lyubomirsky</a> answers your questions about the gap between being loved and <i>feeling</i> loved, in our latest installment of "Your Questions Answered."</p> <p><i>If you enjoy listening to Hidden Brain, we think you'll enjoy watching it as well! Subscribe to our new YouTube channel at </i><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenbrain" rel="noopener noreferrer"><i>youtube.com/@hiddenbrain</i></a><i> so you don't miss any of our videos.</i></p> <p> </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>
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