The Brutal Tactics of Female Sexual Competition - Dr Dani Sulikowski - #1064

Feb 26, 2026 1h 50m

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Dr Dani Sulikowski is an evolutionary psychologist, professor, and researcher. Female intrasexual competition is more ruthless than most people realize. Just when we think we understand how women compete with one another, the rules shift—and the limits move. So how intense is female intrasexual competition really, and what has social media done to amplify it? Expect to learn what female intrasexual competition is trying to achieve and how it differs from males, why Vogue Magazine said having a boyfriend is cringe now and Dr Sulikowski’s response to that, if reproductive suppression works against men, what some of the more under recognised methods of intrasexual competition that women engage in are, if there are any societal shifts that people are pinning on men that you think are more due to female intrasexual competition and much more… Timestamp: (0:00) Do All Women Compete With Each Other? (8:14) Why Women Judge Each Other’s Looks So Harshly (12:23) Male vs Female Competition: What's the Difference? (21:36) Why Is Female Competition So Taboo? (24:54) The Dating Advice War: What Are Women Saying? (35:53) Is Having a Boyfriend Cringe Now? (49:12) Do Reproductive Suppression Strategies Work Against Men? (55:37) Why Evolution Hasn’t Saved Us From Falling Birth Rates (01:00:30) Why Declining Birth Rates Are So Controversial (01:04:33) Is the Modern Workplace Reducing Reproductive Rates? (01:13:10) Are Single Women Less Happy? (01:14:51) How Toxic Masculinity is Shaping Female Competition (01:26:00) Why Modern Men Are Pulling Back From Dating (01:31:45) Has Gender Politics Broken Dating? (01:49:33) Where to Find Dr Dani Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠ Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period from Shopify at https://shopify.com/modernwisdom Get up to $50 off the RP Hypertrophy App at https://rpstrength.com/modernwisdom Get 10% discount on all Gymshark products at https://gym.sh/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM10) Get the brand new Whoop 5.0 and your first month for free at https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠ Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠ #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠ #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠ - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠ Email: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠ - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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