Why Is No One Having Sex? - Alex DatePsych - #593

About this episode

Alex DatePsych is a Neuroscience and Behavioural Science researcher whose work focuses on attractiveness and dating. We are in a new age of sexlessness. It could be that right now, the human race is having less sex than ever before. Given the rise of dating apps, the sexual revolution and hormonal birth control, how is this happening? Expect to learn what the science says about whether girls find it creepy to be approached, whether dating is harder for young men now than in the past, why women's sexual desire declines at twice the rate of mens' in marriages, why there is a PUA to Incel Pipeline, if it's true that women's standards have risen over the last few decades, whether inceldom is all about looks and much more... Timestamps: (00:00) Intro (01:31) How to Approach Women Without Feeling Creepy (16:19) What is Causing the Rise in Sexless Men? (22:32) The Rising Standards of Women (27:34) Does Being Single for a Long Time Impact Happiness? (31:42) What It’s Like to Be in the Top 20% of Men on Dating Apps (36:40) Are Attractive Women Having More or Less Sex? (46:44) What Guys Get Wrong About What Women Find Attractive (58:12) The Origins of Inceldom (1:08:09) Do Men Really Want to Cheat? (1:16:03) Decline in Sexual Desire over Length of Relationship (1:23:42) Why People Accuse Alex of Pro-Feminist Dating Views (1:29:42) Where to Find Alex Extra Stuff: Check out Alex's website - https://datepsychology.com/  Follow Alex on Twitter - https://twitter.com/datepsych  Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Episodes You Might Enjoy: This Is How To Master Your Life - David Goggins - #577: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠ How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs - Dr Jordan Peterson - #712: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠ The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain - Dr Andrew Huberman - #700: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠ - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices