Why Modern Life Can Feel So Empty - William von Hippel - #905

About this episode

William von Hippel is a psychologist, professor, and author. Modern life feels so complex that even basic emotions like happiness seem distant. Were we happier as hunter-gatherers, with more connection and autonomy? If so, how do these prehistoric needs shape our well-being today? Expect to learn if it would be helpful to return back to a simpler hunter & gather time of human evolution, why so many people struggle to be happy, why having autonomy is so important, what happiness research says about how well off hunter-gather tribes were, which forces shape autonomy and connection, why we worship individualism so much, why anxiety is the emotion de jour of the modern world, how to rebalance your own life, and much more… Timestamps: (00:00) Why We Aren’t Happier When We Have Everything (11:01) Connection Through an Evolutionary Lens (20:36) What Drove Hunter-Gatherers to Connect? (25:16) How Materialistic Were Hunter-Gatherers? (29:58) How Hunter-Gatherers Maintained Networks (32:09) Tensions Between Competence & Warmth (40:47) Which Historical Periods Prioritised Connection? (49:22) The Forces That Shape Autonomy & Connection (57:23) Why We’re Off-Balance in Modern Society (01:06:14) Society’s Worship of Individualism (01:12:34) Does Marriage Fulfil Our Need for Connection? (01:16:46) Why Anxiety is So Prevalent Today (01:18:26) How to Find a Better Balance (01:29:45) Where to Find William Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://chriswillx.com/deals Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period from Shopify at https://shopify.com/modernwisdom Get a 20% discount & free shipping on Manscaped’s shavers at https://manscaped.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM20) Get the Whoop 4.0 for free and get your first month for free at https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: https://chriswillx.com/books Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: This Is How To Master Your Life - David Goggins - #577: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠ How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs - Dr Jordan Peterson - #712: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠ The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain - Dr Andrew Huberman - #700: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberma - Get In Touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices