What Backbiting Is and Why Muslims Still Do It | Surah Al-Hujurat | Nouman Ali Khan

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In this clip from our Deeper Look of Surah Al-Hujurat, Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan unpacks one of the most overlooked dimensions of Ayah 49:12, the verse in which Allah asks whether any of you would love to eat the flesh of your dead brother and you would despise that. Most people hear this verse and think about the person doing the backbiting. Ustadh Nouman shows why that reading is incomplete. The grammatical choice Allah makes, addressing the prohibition in the third person rather than directly, is deliberate: it covers not only the one speaking but every person sitting in the room who heard it and said nothing. Silence, in this Ayah, is a violation. He then walks through the real reasons people backbite or permit it around them: unaddressed anger, the fear of social awkwardness, a need to deflect attention from their own flaws and jealousy toward others who appear happy. The image Allah chose, eating your own brother's dead flesh, is so viscerally repulsive precisely because our tongues produce harm we have grown numb to. The ugliness of the image is the point. Watch the full Deeper Look episode and the complete series at https://byna.tv/21. 00:00 Silence Makes You Guilty 00:37 Defining Backbiting 01:12 The Third Person Grammar 02:35 Mockery Prohibition Same Rule 03:00 Three Types of Speech 04:35 Why People Backbite 07:03 The Flesh of a Dead Brother 12:46 Our Words to Allah ------------------------------ 📚 Start your Quran journey at https://www.bayyinahtv.com 🎁 Sponsor a soul who seeks the Quran with a Bayyinah TV membership at https://bayyinah.com/gift