How Did Your Parents Mess You Up? My Daughter Got Brutally Honest About What I Got Wrong

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<p>What if you could sit down with your parents and finally tell them what they got wrong? Or ask your kids what they wish you'd done differently?</p><p>Today, Mel and her daughter Sawyer are having the kind of honest conversation most families never have.</p><p>And Sawyer isn't holding back.</p><p>She asks Mel lots of questions, including:</p><p>-What do you think you got wrong as my mom?</p><p>-What do you wish you did differently?</p><p>-What did raising three kids teach you?</p><p>Mel talks about her biggest regrets, the mistakes she's still making, and the ways her own childhood shaped the mother she became.</p><p>But what makes this conversation so special is that Sawyer shares her side, too.</p><p>You'll hear why Sawyer sometimes turns to her dad instead of Mel, what she wishes her mom understood about her, and how even the most loving families can fall into patterns that leave everyone feeling frustrated or misunderstood.</p><p>As Mel and Sawyer talk, you'll hear things you can do to make your relationships better, too.</p><p>In this episode, you'll learn:</p><p>- What Mel wishes she'd done differently raising her three kids</p><p>- Why Mel regrets trying to help her kids and what you can do to avoid this mistake</p><p>- What adult children wish their parents understood</p><p>- How your childhood shapes the way you communicate, show love, and handle conflict</p><p>- Why mothers and daughters can have such complicated relationships</p><p>- One simple question that can change how you communicate with the people you love</p><p>- How to stop repeating the same arguments and frustrations in your family</p><p>- A practical way to stay calm when someone pushes your buttons</p><p>- Why you don't always need to agree to understand each other</p><p>- How to build a closer, more loving relationship with your family, no matter how old you are</p><p>Whether you're a mom looking back on raising your kids, an adult who wishes your parents understood you better, or someone who wants less tension and more connection with your family, this conversation will give you a new perspective.</p><p>You can't change everything that happened in your family, but you can change how you understand each other and what happens next.</p><p>For more resources related to today’s episode, <a href="https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-452/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><u>click here </u></a>for the podcast episode page.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>If you liked the episode, check out this one next: Y<a href="https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-185/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><u>ou Learn This Too Late: This One Idea Might Change Your Entire Life</u></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Mel also wants to tell you:</p><ul><li><a href="https://puregeniusprotein.com/MP" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><u>Try the 23g protein shot I drink every single morning</u></a></li><li><a href="https://www.melrobbins.com/newsletter/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><u>Join 2 million readers loving my weekly newsletter - full of tips, tools, and inspiration</u></a></li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401971369?tag=lnk0001-20&amp;geniuslink=true" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><u>The Let Them Theory: read the book everyone’s talking about</u></a>&nbsp;</li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/45OWCNr" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><u>Watch the episodes on YouTube</u></a><u>&nbsp;</u></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/3QfG8bb" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><u>Connect with me on Instagram</u></a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/49bg4GP" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><u>Follow the show’s Instagram for clips, behind the scenes, and more</u></a><u>&nbsp;</u></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/46Kpw2v" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><u>Find some daily positivity on my TikTok</u></a></li><li><a href="https://siriusxm.supportingcast.fm/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><u>Want zero ads? Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-free</u></a></li><li><a href="https://www.melrobbins.com/disclaimer" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><u>Disclaimer</u></a></li></ul><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>